I am a bridesmaid in an upcoming wedding. We just put on a shower and took the bride out for a road trip weekend. It was a lot of fun, but I spent a decent amount of money. I did not mind because I knew what I signed up for.
Over dinner one night on her bachelorette weekend trip, she informed all the bridesmaids that we were not allowed to bring dates to the rehearsal dinner. She said the reason was that there were too many people invited and it was too expensive. But should this not have been factored in before? They picked a very expensive restaurant to have the dinner; it is the most expensive restaurant in town. I am not asking to bring the "flavor of the month guy." We have been together longer than the bride and groom have even known each other. And one of the other bridesmaids has a long term boyfriend coming in from out of town for the wedding. When she announced this, we were all a bit take a back. Is this something that is common, or do others find this a bit rude like I do? After taking her out for a full weekend, where she did not spend a dime, is it wrong to expect her to invite me and my long-term boyfriend to the rehearsal dinner?