So my future hubby"s families and mine completely disagree on what RD guest list should be. His family and guest list are all local while I have about twenty out of town family members/close friends. My parents think the RD should include all OOT guests and his are flipping out (even though we have offered to pay for extra guests). I feel akward because his parents insist this is "their party to throw", yet they won't even look at RD sites with us! And my parents are (willingly and graciously) paying alot for our wedding and want a nice rehearsal to match...Eeeek what do I do?!?1 And please be kind in your response..