Ok so my MOH is kind of sketchy when it comes to planning but she says she's going to throw me a bridal shower in the spring. I recently heard from my fiaance that my future mother in law wants to throw me a bridal shower also but she has not spoken to me about it at all. What do I do? Like I said my MOH says she wants to throw a shower but I can never actually depend on her, you know talk is cheap. But I dnt want to offend her by having someone else throw me a shower. Should I let them both throw me a shower?