So my sister is suppose to be throwing my bridal shower my April. My only request is the location. I want to make sure that I am comfortable; I'll have a 2month old by then! However, she is stuck at having it at a location of her choice (Moose Lodge). I am NOT interested in this option at all! I feel it is not a good representative of who I am, nor would I feel comfortable there. When I mentioned this to her; she told me, "It's not about you! It's about the host and what the host wants!"!! I was dumbfounded! Isn't a bridal shower about the bride?? Am I being out of line!? Help me out girls, what's you opinion!
UPDATED:
My FML is actually doing the actual "planning" (hiring caters, organizing the event and what-not) but due to her job she is super busy till after tax season and asked my sister for help finding a location.
My sister is NOT paying for anything due to "hard economic times" and my FML has offered to pay for all expenses.
The location is not acceptable for many reasons.
1. Has a very strong political side; one in which is not my nor my future husbands view point.
2. It's a bar; and we don't drink (she and her husband are heavy drinkers and there is some fear that she will get trashed (as she normally does) and cause drama)
3. There are dead animal heads all over the walls. Would you REALLY want that in your bridal shower pictures?