I'm throwing my brother's fiance a bridal shower and am happy to foot the bill and plan it all myself if necessary. As of right now other than a work shower, this is the only shower in the works. (Oct wedding) Given that it could be the only one, I want her MOH & other bridesmaids to be involved if they so desire. I sent out an email to that effect a couple days ago. I've gotten one response thus far that said something like "I'll help out if need be, just let me know." What exactly does that mean? How do I proceed? Do I just put "given by her bridesmaids" on the invites, do I ask for a financial contribution (which I feel somewhat uncomfortable asking for outright)? The other bms don't live close enough for us to get together. Does that mean I just include them on emails with my shower ideas and ask them for input? I don't want to sound crass, but if others are unable to help or contribute financially, I'd rather not include their names as hosts on the invite.