Good Morning Ladies!
Ok... so i'm a social worker and I RARELY have trouble talking to people about my feelings in a polite manner. But this one has me in a pickle because family feelings are on the line.
My mom is an ex-drinker and she completely went the other way and is against alcohol now. I am obviously not having her at my bachelorette party because my girls and I love to party and drink.
My future mother in-law made a comment/joke yesterday saying "I better be at the bachelorette party". I don't mind her having everyone at her house for some snacks and opening gifts, but once that limo comes.. I just want it to be me and my girls.
How on earth do I politely tell her that I just want it to be my friends and my future sister in-laws? I would risk having hurt feelings on both ends. But I care more about my moms feelings. If my mom knew that she was coming and not her, she would be hurt. And my mom knows the reason why too. I told my mom that I don''t want her coming because I don't want to have to watch myself with her and have her cranky because alcohol will be involved.
Please help ladies!