I'm throwing a bridal shower and bachelorette party for my good friend in August. I expect to pay for the costs of the shower, but not the bachelorette party. We will be spending a night away in a nearby town. On the invitation, I want to give details about our dinner plans and so on. How do I make it clear that everyone needs to pay their own way for dinner? There's not a pre-set menu or anything, so I can't say "$40 for dinner", because it'll just depend on what they order. For the hotel, I'm just saying "The hotel will cost about $35 per person, depending on how many ladies are staying". Any thoughts? Thanks!