I know that traditionally, your maid of honor is supposed to plan your bachelorette party. Well, I'd really like to re-delegate that responsibility, but I'm not sure how.
My sister is my maid of honor. She's a party girl. Her idea of a bachelorette party is something with lots of alcohol, plastic penises, and silly "truth or dare" games with random men at bars and clubs.
While I would go to something like that for a friend, that's not how I want _my_ bachelorette party to be. What I want is a fun, non-trashy girls' night out -- or night in getting pampered with massages and all that.
My girlfriends are also spread all over the country, so it would likely be a destination thing.
My sister is probably pumped for planning my alcohol-fueled plastic penis fest. How do I make it clear that is the LAST thing I want to do for my bachelorette party -- and would it be possible to choose someone else to do the planning without hurting feelings?