We are getting married in Florida (live in Wisconsin). About 15-20 friends & family will be going there for the wedding. Then a few months after we are having a casual reception/party for all our friends, family, co-workers, etc. It's probably going to be in a park & have more of a reunion feel than a wedding.... what do people normally do for gifts (if anything)? I'd feel strange registering & suggesting people bring gifts when they weren't at the actual wedding. What is the norm for this??