Hi everyone! Our wedding was one week and one day ago (and was wonderful...everything we dreamed of and more!) and we are finishing up our thank you notes. I noticed that we did not receive a gift from one of my mother's best friends who attended the wedding. Please note that I do NOT expect a gift from anyone and I am just happy that she was there with us on our special day, but I am surprised and concerned that perhaps she did give a gift and it was lost (we do not want to look ungrateful by not acnowledging the gift, if there was one). If just doesn't seem like her to not bring or send a gift (and my mom agrees). I have two children and she sent gifts for both of their baby showers, even though she didn't attend them and her own daughter was married in July and my parents brought a gift for her (not that this means she should have to for us, but again I am just surprised).
There are a few items on our registries that show up as having been purchased, but we haven't received them. I was assuming that these items were from my co-workers who are planning a post-wedding shower for me in September, but now I'm wondering if something could have been from her? To confuse matters more, one of our gifts, from our Target registry, went to our old address for some strange reason (we were lucky enough to drive by and see the package outside). My husband and I have both tried calling Target, to see if they could tell us if they had shipped any other items and to what address, but we both got stuck on hold for over an hour. We went to a Target store yesterday to try and get their customer service to help, but because of Target's new website, their whole registry system was down, so they couldn't help us either.
What should we do? I obviously don't want to point it out if she didn't get us a gift, but I kind of think that's unlikely. Is there any way we (or my mother) could find out from her without coming right out and asking? I just want to make sure that we have thanked everyone properly for their generousity. Thank you!