I'm a bit stuck on what to do with wedding gifts. I'm from Pennsylvania, which is where we'll be having the wedding, but my fiance is from England. Most of my family is nearby, but his will be coming from various places in Europe. Furthermore, we have been to many places and have close friends all over Asia, in Canada, in Europe, etc. who we are inviting, some of which are standing for my FH. To further complicate things, we are in the middle of moving from Spain to the UK, possibly Scotland or England, and will still be there when we get married. So what on earth do we do about gifts? I don't expect anyone who has to travel for the wedding to add the expense of a gift, so how do I tell them that? And how do I avoid making it look like my family have to give gifts but his don't? (This, I'm hoping, won't be a huge issue, as my family is very close.) Finally, for those who do choose to give a gift, what do they do with it? How do I tell people that it will be difficult for me to get everything back to the UK after the wedding? Should I tell them to ship the gifts to our home? Thank goodness I have plenty of time to figure all of this out.... Thanks for the suggestions!