I need some advice ladies!! My MOH flaked on me and is now out of my wedding. My bridal shower is coming up so my FMIL, mom, and FGIL took it upon themselves to throw me the shower. They gathered almost 25 hostesses. These are mostly close friends and relatives of theirs. I chose maybe 2 people. Well I recently attended a shower with over 30 hostesses and the bride purchased each of them a gift to thank them. First of all, I didn't realize you had to purchase hostess gifts. Other than donating some money, my hostesses aren't really going out of the way doing things. My budget is already very tight but now I feel like I have to buy them a thank you gift. I feel bad about the whole situation. What do you think?