Like others that have posted here, my guy and I are in our 30’s and have 2 of everything already. Most of our friends and family will be coming from out of town and spending lots of money just to get here. I know some folks will insist on giving us a gift, but we truly believe that them being there is enough. I’d like to say in a gracious, nice way, “no gifts please.” Is that rude? Where should I put something like that?