Our wedding is 2-29-12 in Maui. My fiance and I live here in Maui and almost all of the guests are traveling from the East Coast for the big day. We feel that people are already spending enough money on us by joining us here in Maui and don't expect any gifts. However, everyone keeps telling me to register anyway...
The other thing is that my bridal shower will be in NJ in November. Some of the attendees of the shower probably won't be able to come to the wedding, but they want to be a part of the shower, which is fine... Since I'll only be in NJ for a week, I don't know if I could bring all the presents back with me on the plane, especially if it's fragile. Can I ask to have the presents shipped to our house in Hawaii? We were also considering resgistering for the honey moon as well since that doesn't require a present in a box...?
Any suggestions?