I have been on the hunt for months now to try and find the perfect gift to give my girls. I wanted to make them a "spa day a home" gift bag with candles, bubble bath, face mask, lotions etc. and I wanted to include some things they can use "day of" almost like a small survival kit type thing. But the main thing I wanted to do was give them a cute satin robe that they can wear while we are all getting ready. My future sis-in-law beat me to the punch. She got married about 6 months ago and when they opened up their gifts they got robes to get ready in as well. This wouldn't be a big deal but she is a BM in my wedding. I don't want to give her a gift that she already gave and make it seem like im copying her. Our weddings are already so similar (we have the exact same taste) and I don't want her to think Im stealing all of her ideas. I know she wouldn't care, she is the nicest person in the world, I just don't want to seem like im not trying....Making sense?
any suggestions? Should I just do it? or think of something different?