A co-worker whom I have known for over six years is getting married soon. Our department is very close-knit and many of us have attended each other's weddings. However, he is having a smaller wedding and needed to take the all-or-nothing approach with co-workers, so none of us are invited. I take no offense to this whatsoever. But he is my friend, and I am dying to send him a gift!!! Not as a passive-aggressive-how-could-you-not-invite-me thing, but because I am sincerely happy for him. But should I? Would this create an uncomfortable situation, or should I go for it? And how much would be too much?
Twins due May 24!