OK I know I'm bad, but my shower is in two weeks, and I just peeked - somebody bought us our first wedding gift! It's our silver chest, and I can't believe it... I really wanted it but wouldn't have purchased it for ourselves after the fact because it's pricey. I don't know if it's a wedding or shower gift (wedding invitations go out next weekend), but I'm very excited! Is it weird that it finally feels real?