Hi, Im reading a lot of posts about "registrires" And talking about registering for gifts and not to expect money. So it shounds like these posts are refering to a Bridal Party registry. I know at all the weddings I've ever been to we give money of at least $100 or better. The gifts we bring to the bridal shower. I dont know if giving money is custom for an Italian American family but thats what our family and friends do. So I am confused regarding the posts about registering because it does seem like they are refering to the actual wedding and not the Bridal Shower.