We are a more modern funky couple - bright colors, bold patterns are more our style. What in the world does one do with a crystal vase or bowl? I have no "china cabinet" or place to display it...I appreciate receiving it, since I'm sure it was not cheap, but I feel so bad sticking it in the back of a cupboard! Is this one of those gifts I'll use in like 40 years when entertaining our grandkids? Am I the only one who feels this way?