I am the MOH in my best girlfriend's wedding just 3 days away. Instead of registering, she has asked guests to contribute to her honeymoon via honeyfund.com. It is basically a website where the costs for your honeymoon are broken down into smaller increments and guests buy everything from part of the airfare to a massage or romantic dinner for the couple. I'm not a big fan of the idea however after talking to a few people, they suggested that I should contribute because that is what SHE wants. Others have told me that being MOH, I should come up with a more unique individualized gift idea. What should I do???