So I'm in another situation...We had a family party to celebrate our elopement yesterday and it was wonderful! Here's the problem, we got a card from my cousin and her husband and she wrote, "Hope you guys got our gift and are enjoying it"...We never got a gift! We really didn't care one way or the other about receiving gifts, but what do I do since nothing was ever received? I know she does a lot of online shopping, so maybe it's still on it's way, but at what point should I let them know that we didn't get anything? Thanks so much!