We have decided to have a small wedding with only our immediately family, grandparents, and best friends. Most of my extended family doesn't know this yet. My grandmother (who does know that it will be a small wedding) insists that I have to have a bridal shower with all my aunts and friends. My fiance and I already live together and don't need anything other than money to be honest. I think it's extremely rude to invite people to a bridal shower who aren't being invited to the wedding. I feel like it will make me look greedy and I don't even want a bridal shower! I'd love some suggestions on how to handle this situation tactfully.