So, I've been trying to be my FI to go register with me on one of his days off. He is off on Sunday and Monday. For two months now I've tried to get him to go.
Every time I say let's go register on x day he says okay. Then the day comes and he has some reason not to go. He says we can do it tomorrow ( I usually aim for Sunday). Then "tomorrow" comes and he says he's too tired and just wants to relax before he has to go back to work.
I've asked him several times why he is avoiding it. He says he isn't and he wants to do it, but he is just *so* busy (insert eye roll here). The stuff he is *so* busy with is usually going out with friends. I get that and fully support doing that. I go out with my friends too. I just don't understand why setting aside one afternoon or evening to do this one wedding task is such a problem.
Isn't registering supposed to be a fun part of wedding planning? I mean a week or so after we got engaged he said registering was the one thing he was looking forward to the most.
Anyone else experience this? Any advice? I really don't want to do it alone since these will be items for the two of us to use together...