I posted this question in teh invites board originally, but I think it belongs here more...
Anyway, I know we aren't supposed to put registry info in the invites, but we are planning on having people make donations to a few select charities in lieu of gifts if they like. I will not be having a shower since we won't have a registry, so how do I let them know what we have planned if there will be no shower invites and we're not putting it in the wedding invites?