my Fi and I are in our early 30's, never married before but have been so fortunate in our lives & careers to obtain all that we truly need to start our lives together. We have a home that we would like to update. If we were to register for gifts they would be new appliances that would be expensive and the only ones able to buy out right would be our giving parents who are already giving so much for our wedding. I have been to numerous weddings where people have asked for honeymoon funds. I see so many answers to the question "how do I ask for cash" as negative, but in all honesty there are plenty of brides like me who don't need a department store registry. So I would like to hear suggestions of eloquently asking for funds to put towards improving our home.
Your positive feedback is appreciated!