...and as dumb as this sounds, I don't know what to say! I am the first grandaughter to get married and my grandmother asked if FI and I would prefer cash or a gift. They gave all my other cousins to marry (all boys) just a check for the same ammount (and I would expect no more....not that I expect anything, but you know what I mean). I should also say I am extreemly close with them.
My mom said "they won't care either way, but what would you prefer? Would you two just want a check to save or spend as you'd like or do you want a physical item they purchased for you that you can always have and say 'this is what my Grandma and Papa got me for our wedding?'" When she puts it like that it really makes me want a physical item (they would pick something special, not like, a toaster or something), but a check is so much more practical. What do you ladies think? Am I being dumb?
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