My FH and I have been together for 6 years, we are in our 30s and have a 3 yr old. There are a few things we don't have or would like to upgrade in our home and are registering for them. What we don't have are the finances to take a honeymoon trip. We have never had the opportunity for a vacation of just us and dearly love the idea. Most of the honeymoon registries I have found require you to book first but that isn't ideal. I also dislike the idea of giving 7 % (hey, I am frugal). Any ideas to let friends and family know our wishes without asking for $ or it sounding like we expect a gift?