My fiance's aunts threw us a couple shower - our first shower - last night, with the majority of the guests being his family/friends and only a handful from my side. We got several great gifts, again, mostly from his side. My mom and my brother's girlfriend are throwing me a women-only bridal shower in two weeks, and that one will have mostly my side's family/friends, but also all the women on FI's side that were at our couples shower yesterday.
My issue is, I am feeling guilty that FI's family will feel like they have to buy us another gift for the 2nd shower! Do guests normally know that gifts at EVERY pre-wedding party isn't required or should I let them know I just appreciate their attendance? FI and I are from two different cultures so I just want his family to come meet & greet with mine at my mom's shower, and am just worrying that they'll somehow feel pressured to bring a gift when they certainly don't have to.