I am in a very good friend of mine's wedding and I want to give her and her FI an amazing gift. The problem is that between purchasing the BM dress, bachelorette party, bridal showergift and pricey destination wedding, I am a little spent. I know this was coming and I should have budgeted better, but some unexpected things came up and I still have some of the destination wedding expenses to pay for. Basically, what is the etiquette of me getting her something a week or two after the wedding? I would like to know what I have left after I get back rather than going out of town slim. (And I do not plan on going hog wild down there, I just know that situations arise and I would rather be able to deal with them if necessary.) I know this sounds horrible. I really want to get her something great after rather than something smaller now.