My wedding is in October of 2012 and I am so stressed about registering. I can't seem to put it out of my mind until the time comes so Im hoping to get some suggestions. I know that its absolutely inappropriate to ask for money but my fiance and I are having such a hard time finding places we like. I have been all over the web looking for a businesses to register with. Our tastes are everywhere and I am a bargain shopper, I like to shop around and find unique items etc. Also, our families cannot afford much so places like Crate and Barrel, Macy's etc. are out. We also wont be using Amazon.com. I used to order various things from there and every time we ordered something we had a problem. It was broken, not represented right and we just wont do business with them anymore.
We also have been living together for awhile so we already have a lot of normal registry basics that do not need to be replaced. We really would benefit from cash but we aren't going to ask for it. We are in need of a car, want to save for a down payment on a home, newer furniture and other things that aren't really register items. Im at a loss. We tried ourwishingwell.com which was a great concept but the more we used it the more money it was going to cost us and our guests and I didn't feel right using it. We've seen Target and Walmart and all those places but none have what we want or need. I have no idea what to do. Please help!