Here's my question. I know it's traditional to get china plates for your wedding but I have a two year old. I would absolutely love to get new dishes, mine are really run down, but I would never use china as I have a small child and I am admittedly clumsy and drop my dishes all the time. (But they are corelle and never break). So would it be rude to ask to skip the china and get something more practical for my life?