My FH and I both lived in apartments for college and our parents got us nicer things that would last us but now its problem. For example silverware.... I have some I just got last Christmas and his is from his parents. His parents got two sets when they got married(20 years ago) and then gave them to him. I understand that be a little special for him but the silverware is so dated and mines not. So when we went to register we registered for new ones but why waste 80 bucks when we can get something else we need. There are other appliances and things that he wont get rid of yet it doesn't match or its not as nice. I feel like I have gotten rid of a lot. How do you guys deal with this???