Well, we haven't picked out a date yet. I was throwing around fall 2010 and a couple of venues. Well, my Fi's best friend's girlfriend (who isn't engaged) just booked my DREAM VENUE for October 2010. (I told her last month that it was something I was seriously considering and just waiting until I started my new job (Sept) to go look at it/pay deposit/etc.I feel like if I get married anywhere in the fall/winter of 2010 it's going to be nothing but drama and "one-ups."I found out last night about all of this. I don't want his GF at the wedding and I won't be attending theirs. This has created nothing but drama and it's only been 12 hours. What should I do I don't want my wedding day ruined by drama and one-ups.