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  • crumpton28crumpton28
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    edited December 2011
    In my opinion I don't think you have to wait until your wedding day. If you want to do it in June then start planning it and do it in June. I know my husband and I have been married for 5 and 1/2 years we are doing our renewal since we have been through a lot with deployments and everything. We had to plan ours one day before our actual anniversary day. We did the same thing that you seemed to do was ran off and married. Every day I love my husband more and more he is the best thing that has happened to me. So go ahead and plan the wedding of your dreams even if it is your renewal.
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  • mmccrmmccr member
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    edited December 2011
    I say plan it how you want it. My husband and I have been married for 8 yrs and in 2012 we are doing our renewing (10yrs)and I am planning it like how I want it. So girl have your wedding in whatever month you want to.
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  • pamila51510pamila51510
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    edited December 2011
    i agree do what you want and what makes you happy for your renewal!!!
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  • handfast4mehandfast4me member
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    edited December 2011
    I'm not a big fan of "do-overs" but since you're being up front and calling it a vow renewal, have been through some tough times, and trying to re-commit to one another, then as long as you're honest with your guests about what you're doing, it's fine.   There have been many a woman on these boards who missed their "real wedding"  (their term, not mine, I think if it's legal, it's a real wedding), and then had a do over, but were not truthful with their guests. 

    Also, and I'm saying this in the nicest tone of voice, your post is a tad difficult to read.  Most do not post on these boards the way we would text.  So, you may wish to lurk a bit more and post again to let us know what you've decided. 
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  • twinmommy46twinmommy46 member
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    edited December 2011
    Wow. I totally disagree with the last post from Mrs. Non-Hospitaltiy in Atlanta. I feel I missed out on the wedding of my dreams because I was young and pretty much given no choice in what type of reception I would have. That meant no dance with my dad or any dancing at all. It also meant cake, nuts, and punch at the reception.
    Renewing our vows after 25 years is not a "do-over" and that term is rude and insulting.
    I hope you are kinder to your husband.
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