Hello, ladies! So, I'm an encore bride. My FI is also divorced. He has two kids, and I don't have any. His Ex kept his last name, so she and their kids will have the same last name. Now, I'm debating about taking his last name. I would like to, but I feel weird since the kids' mother has that name. I'm really thinking of hyphenating. But, my FI wants me to take his name. He understands where I'm coming from. I totally do not want to take anything away from their mom. Also, since I don't have kids, I feel that I'm keeping part of myself if I just hyphenate, or just keep my last name. Does anyone think it's 'weird' to have the same last name as your FI's ex-wife, the mother of his children? TIA