Do you have kids? Does you FI have kids? If so how old. What are you doing to include them in the wedding?I have kids and so does the FI. He has a 17 year old daughter, 14 and 10 year old sons. I have 14 and 10 year old daughters and together we have a 6 year old. We are getting them promise necklace. Boys crosses and girls diamond pendants. They are in our wedding as best men and maids of honors and flower girl. We are having either a sand or candlelight. We haven't chose yet. What about you?