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Nuptial Nightmares

handfast4mehandfast4me member
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There's a post about a divorce not being finalized.  I'm not posting this saying we should run over there to comment, (I certainly won't) but just to our friends who are having the same issues--that there are replies basically saying WAIT.  Just as we've told others with the same issue.  This one is a bit different, though, in that the person thought their divorce was final, but it isn't.
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  • kmmssgkmmssg mod
    Moderator Knottie Warrior 5000 Comments 500 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    The legal ramifications there are huge!  They have been legally married for 15 yrs and there could be debt issues, ect.  What an awful surprise!
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  • handfast4mehandfast4me member
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    edited December 2011
    What's worse is when it's not a surprise.  'nuff sed. 
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  • pamila51510pamila51510
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    edited December 2011
    I one have to say I love your life on the knot/nest very funny and true. Wow that sucks but why did they not have the final papers with the date they were recorded? Ok gonna go read?!....
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  • handfast4mehandfast4me member
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    edited December 2011
    Yeah, about a week after I thought the divorce was final, I received a photocopy of the registered and certified document in the mail.  Then about 6 months into dating Todd, after he'd mentioned marriage a couple of times, I went and got a certified copy. I thought he would just one day come to my place and say "oh, I can't stand being without you for one more minute!  Let's go to the courthouse and get married."   I put the certified copy of my divorce agreement and a copy of my birth certificate in a file, and kept it handy.  :-)  Of course, then he had the brilliant idea of going to the beach, so there you go.  I just don't know how you plan a wedding without actually knowing your divorce is final.  But then again, I didn't even date until I KNEW my divorce was final.  But you know, that's me. 
    image Don't mess with the old dogs; age and treachery will always overcome youth and skill! BS and brilliance only come with age and experience.
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  • MacLeod2bMacLeod2b
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    edited December 2011
    I guess I dont understand how you can NOT know its not final? Seems like once you have the hearing youre waiting on pins and needles till you get the final paperwork and then you throw a party. When the paperwork doesn't show up that should tell you something.. maybe I need to go read this.. where is it??
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  • MacLeod2bMacLeod2b
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    edited December 2011
    wow ok found it. hmm.
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  • ck9586ck9586
    100 Comments
    edited December 2011
    If things are bad enough that you needed to divorce, wouldn't you follow up on the divorce itself? I still have my stuff ten years later! Kept copy of agreement too because he kept trying to weasel out of things LOL. Bet he doesn't keep his tax returns either. Absolutely wait. Common sense
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