This is from all support that I received when I asked about family invites. I got some great feed back from everyone. I am just wondering why I feel like the bad guy if I don't invite certain family to our celebration. I do not want anyone there that does not support out union or like my FI. My question I do know that it is a way off yet, but am wanting to send off the STD's sometime in Jan. How should I really handle this before I send off those STD"s should I just write a letter and mail it to them, or do a face to face or a phone call. They all live 3-4 hrs away from me. I really just don't want to get into this big long thing with them. I just want to make this short and to the point.