He wants a party, I want to elope. We have been going back and forth on whether we want a "party" or to elope. This summer I had an embarrassing episode at my house during a farewell party I threw for Mr. Encore due to someone having a little too much to drink. Unfortunately it's not like we cannot invite this person to our wedding so I suggested we elope so we don't have to deal with it. He offered "bouncers" or to just serve beer and wine (no hard liquor). I am still a little apprehensive about this. Has anyone had this concern? What worked for you? I understand everyone’s situations are different but I wanted to know if I was the only one out there. TIA!