our upcoming wedding will be my second but my hunny's first. My family all lives out of state and traveled for my first. As much as we want them to attend our special day neither of us want them to feel obligated to come especially because many of them dont have the means to make the trip without straining their budgets. Whats the best way for us to let them know that we'd love to have them but wont be offended if they cant make it... Maybe we're stressing about it but we dont want them to feel like we're being greedy... any ideas or advice?