Does anyone else here carry some guilt about walking down the aisle again? I am really struggling with this for some reason. I told my FI that I was perfectly fine just going to the justice of the peace and calling it good, but since this is his first time getting married, I don't want to take the wonderful experience of a wedding away from him. He's actually very excited and wants to be involved in the whole process. But I feel that I don't deserve to go through it all again, and feel foolish trying on dresses, and attempting to go through the whole planning thing again. I am only recently divorced, but I love my FI tremendously and am determined that we will be together for ever. He wants a semi-formal wedding, me in the white dress, invitations...all that. We're planning on getting married in 18 months because we don't want to rush things (my ex got remarried 5 days after our divorce!). Do I deserve all this pom and circumstance?