FI and I are trying to get our wedding planned for Febuary of next year. This is the second marriage for both of us and we each have a son mine 4 his 8. I need some insite because we are having trouble deciding on keeping it just us or having family at our wedding. We def know we want it at the beach which is about an 8 hour drive from us. Our first plan was to have it in Destin with our kids, parents, siblings, and grandparents (Which totals about 10-12 people). Then I started thinking about how much money we could save if just he and I went to the beach and got married.
My mom is one of my bffs and there is a chance that she would not be able to attend due to work..she is currently unemployed but will more than likely be employed by our wedding so if she has no vacation then she can't come. I wouldn't feel right if my fam wasn't there but his was. UGH does anyone have any advice.