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Entertain me

Often, when I read a post on this board complaining about the Fi's ex wife, I think, well, that could be my xH's new gf (oh, excuse me, fiancee) complaining about me.  So, I thought you all could entertain me --and yourselves, if you wish-- by writing fictitious posts that your xH's (or xboyfriend, xfiance, etc) new woman would post here about YOU.  It doesn't have to be true, just true-ish.  I think it will be interesting to see what another woman marrying our leftovers could write about us. 
So here's mine.  I will write it the way I imagine she would write.


PLEASE HELP!!!!!!

My Fi's ex bitch is being soooo impossible.  She turned his kids away from him, sos they done want to even talk to him anymore.  All she cares about is money, even tho she has soooo much money, he still had to pay child suport, until he was disabled and then she got more moeny from SSI.  I tried to help out with a problem she was havin with Fi's nefew.  He kepp showing up at her house saying his mother is dieing and he wants to talk to his uncle.  That bitch gave him our phone number and he started callin us.  I told him a thing or two, tole him to never call us agin, and tole him to stop talking to that woman, she aint nothin to him anymore.  He went to her house agin, and she tole him she never said that!  And Fi's kids got so mad at ME!! Can you believe that?  They said that I shou'nt be involved with their cousins at all.  As if I am not about to be their stepmother!  Fi has no backbone, so I tole them kids right out they need to be respectin me and respectin their father, he is the ONLY father they is gonna have. 
How do you think I can get Fi to see that he needs to make his kids be more respectin of me, and keep his xbitch from disrupting our life? 

Re: Entertain me

  • edited December 2011
    My FI's X is totally interfering in our lives! She calls him like 2x a year asking for his signature because she "didn't have time" to get his name off of everything. Seriously- they don't even have kids together and she is still keeping in touch after 5 years! I'm getting divorced right now and my X e-mailed her thinking she was still married to my FI and he was cheating on her, but instead of dropping it b/c my X is insane, she just had to call and blast my FI about it!!! It's not our fault. I don't even deal with my X unless it's about our daughter or the courts. Why can't she just get her crap together and move away?

     







  • edited December 2011
    How fun Right1!!! but since my ex isn't dating yet I can't really play.  :(

  • edited December 2011
    Yoouse your emaginashun Kelly!!
  • MikesAngieMikesAngie member
    1000 Comments Third Anniversary Name Dropper 5 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    My long term BF (it'll be 3 years in November) has nothing nice to say about his XW, there is a no contact order (something about his harassing her - I stay out of it) and so he hasn't heard from her at all.  He still complains about how she cheated on him. We were together before she moved out and I had even met some of their friends - so that claim is confusing to me. 

    His kids (from his first marriage) hate her, always have so really there is nothing for me to complain about. Except his xW did saddle him with a huge house with an even bigger mortage - but he did get to screw her out of almost everything they owned together and he's very proud of that.  

    So really can't say anything negative about her other than the house thing... but I love him so I don't care.  He's charming and always up for a drink and a good time. Plus he loves spending money on me like it's water so it's great!!! 


  • edited December 2011
    I could do one about my FI's XW!

    I really cannot stand my X's FI. When I was married to him, he was so conservative with our finances and never wanted to take any vacations or anything. He wouldn't even let me buy a brand new BMW and we could totally afford it. I also wanted a brand new, bigger house, but he said our current 3,000 sq ft. home was good enough. So, I left the tortuous marriage and he goes and finds himself this GIRL who is 15 years younger than me!!! Now, he is constantly going on vacation and they live in a really nice house and she drives a BMW! I know what she does for a living and it's the same job my X has, but how is it that she can just go and get a new car that is more than I make and he doesn't say anything about it? Why can they just travel all of the time and I had to go visit my family in CA by myself with the kids? My parents don't speak English that well, but they tried to communicate with him when he was around. Plus, this new girl tries to set house rules for my kids- rules they don't have in my house. It really frutrates them, especially my oldest because she has a bad temper and I am the one who gets all of her crap when this new girl tries to get her to follow these rules! UGH- she is just constantly meddling! It used to be that I could call up my X whenever I wanted a break or needed time away from the kids, but now he tells me NO because she is around and they have plans!!! At least I got my new BMW convertible when I left him. It is a tight squeeze for the kids, but I look damn good in it!

     







  • fireytigerfireytiger member
    Knottie Warrior 1000 Comments
    edited December 2011
    My DH's xW is SUCH a bitch! She totally forced DH into going into the military so he could take care of her, and then she left him and took everything so she could go live back with her parents and live without a job. So now I have to suffer and be alone whenever he has to go on TDY's, because he's invested alot of his life into the military and leaving it now would be kinda like going backwards... I can't believe she used to be one of my best friends in high school, even though she was a total idiot and bitch then too...

    She also made it hard for me to have a good relationship with my MIL, because my MIL calls bitching about her all the time even though they haven't spoken in years. His xW even had the gall to contact DH when she found out that we were getting married to "wish us well", because she totally was jealous that we were so happy. She even bought us a wedding present just to rub our noses in the fact that she still exists, and then actually asked DH if we'd gotten it just to try and elicit a thank you out of him for it. Uhh, look at the tracking number if you want to know if we got it, why should we thank you?? Whatever, I can't be bothered to stress about her, because stress makes me overweight and my doctor says that being overweight is why I can't have a baby with DH.
  • edited December 2011
    ROFLMAO at all of you!! 
  • edited December 2011
    A REAL post from the Nest:

    Stealing my thunder....

    I love my husbands ex wife...we are best friends...really but lately I've began noticing a pattern. Whenever she is aware of something i want to so with the kids....she always has to beat me to the punch or top it. it sucks and its quite frustrating......the last thing i want is to cause tension between us and my husband. that just means strange environment with the kids....so i decided to ask my husband about it...just to see if i had a reason to be upset and he just got frustrated and said to say something to her.....but they're her kids i don't want her to get the wrong idea. Its even gotten to the point where she started doing my bedtime routine but changed it and now the kids mentioned it to me and seem to like it better.....i feel like shes stealing my thunder. help please.....the last thing i want is to be mad with my husband or her. i just want my moments.
  • handfast4mehandfast4me member
    Seventh Anniversary 1000 Comments 5 Love Its
    edited December 2011
    Ok, Donna, I got one:

    My Fiance's ex is such a beeyotch.  She thinks she is so high and mighty just because SHE had to pay alimony for four years in the form of paying off his school loans, and she put their daughter through school, and she bought a house, and scrimped and saved.  And now, just because the court order is completed, she won't pay the alimony any more!  You'd think she'd want to do it, I mean, she's saved all that money!  And she should do it just because he's such a great guy, and won't work, you know, just because he decided to leave one job and move back to San Diego, then left that job to fly off to Hawaii.  I mean, really, he wouldn't even keep their daughter on his tricare prime through his military retirement because he couldn't afford it (on account of him continuing to leave jobs), so his ex had the audacity to complain about that, just because she had to spend several hundred dollars each month on insurance for his daughter while she was in college, even though it would have cost him about 250 a year to keep the daughter on the insurance.   And now, of course, working at a grocery store or something like that is waaaaaay below him.  
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