I am new here to TK but would love your input. My 3 kids (24. 18 & 15) know that I am getting remarried (July 2012) they all love my fiance. The problem is I have not told my xh. My kids have not said anything to him either. I do wear my ring around him so it's not like I am hiding anything. I would love advice on when and how you told your xh's that you were getting remarried. (We have been apart 7 years he has not had a gf during this time.) We are on good terms and can (thank God) easily be in the same space. Your thoughts, ideas & suggestions would be appreciated. Thank you!