Well, to start my husband and I were informally married in June, we did this strictly for legal reasons. Long story short my ex-husband was causing more fuss and trouble which was squashed when we went to the J.P. Now, my family understood that this was just the legal formality that could not be stalled any longer, we were put in a position that waiting for our wedding day in June 2013 was just not possible.... So my dilema is this, we have been planning and saving for our wedding ceremony and reception for years now, and because we went to the J.P. my family is now convinced (shown through thier lack of support) that I should not have the ceremony. Stating that my younger sister is getting married in the summer of the same year (and I could take away from her big day)! With total disregaurd to my feelings, when the subject of my ceremony comes up, it is quickly talked about and I am sternly asked if I am going to "go through with IT or not". I was also informed that my parents will not be attending if I do, because they will be on vacation at that time.... So my question is this, should I just throw in the towel and not have my ceremony and focus on my sisters (who has named me the Matron of Honor with her Maid of Honor having all the responsibility) or should I continue forward with our original plans? I am stuck, my heart is breaking because I know my family really does not care much for my husband, and they truly do not care for me to have a ceremony. They are investing in my sisters wedding instead and that is always being thrown in my face as well. *sigh* any advice???