My future sister in law and I had to convince my future husband to not put on the invitation "no gifts please."
He doesn't look at the gifts as gifts but as ...I don't - know charity??
So there's no registry. My matron of honor is already getting questions about gifts. Being our second marriage, no we don't need a toaster, but we would sure appreciate a gift card to our favorite resturant or a massage during our honeymoon.
How do we "deal" with this?