This will be my second wedding. i was married when i was 21 to the father of my son. it was horrible and our divorce took longer than our marrage. it was a small ceramony in vegas with just our mothers, brothers and son, and i paid for the whole thing (trip and all). i have now been enaged to "The One" for five years!! we originaly decided to put the wedding off and buy a house. we did that. then we decided to have a baby so the kids wouldn't be that far apart in age. we started looking into reception halls, bought our invitations, ext. then we found out that we were pregnant again. we said after the baby's born were getting married for sure....nothing is going to stop us! now we have no one to help us out with anything. everyone says how happy they are for us but, nobody seems to want to talk about it or be involved at all. i can't even talk to my mother. we want to have the wedding that we both have always wanted. a ceramony and reception with about 150-200 people. we had two family members that offered to help us out with money a little bit and now wont. we have enough for the wedding and reception but would not be able to pay for flowers, a photographer, and a couple other small things. i have been trying to explore every option and i feel like im justr going in circles. if anyone has any suggestions or ideas or can help me out in anyway i would be so greatful!