This is my second marriage, his first. He wants the whole deal - big, formal wedding. My first wedding was in 1996 and I have been divorced 10 years, but share two children with my ex. I have kept my married name because of the children.
On the invitations for this wedding, I planned on using my married name since that is who I've been for 10 years. I'm worried that some people on my parent's invite list won't know me with that last name, so I'm debating whether I should do separate invitations for them with my maiden name (I'm doing the invites myself, so it's really not that big of a deal). Is it necessary do you think? We're including full names so I wouldn't have room to put first, middle, maiden, married name ... but I also don't want that group of people to get an invitation and have no idea who's wedding they're invited to.
What do you think?