Hi everyone! I'm new here, we just got engaged a week ago and I'm already dealing with comments from my family about what they think our wedding should be. This will be my fi first wedding and my 2nd. He really wants a big wedding, I feel a little funny about it. I've already asked all my friends and family to a wedding before, they have done bridal showers, and baby showers for me. I feel like it's asking a lot of them to do it again. But at the same time I love my fi and want him to have the wedding he has always wanted. Any ideas?