Anyone out there going through remarriage after being widowed? I am literally closer to my late husband's parents and extended family than my own mother. My father is also deceased. Other than a sister, brother-in-law and an aunt and uncle, and mother, that is all the family I have. Is it weird to have FIL wear a boutonniere and my MIL wear a corsage like my mom? Is it OK to have them sit with my mom and rest of family? My fiancee is totally fine with late husband's immediate family and extended family being there. Now, FIL, on the other hand, is barely dealing with my impending wedding. Lots of issues as his son committed suicide.
I just want them to know that they will always be my family no matter what and not just because I'm the mother of their 2 grandsons. Any advice?